Most men feel love through sex. No matter what the woman says, if there isn't consistent intimacy, the man doesn't feel loved. Most women need to feel loved to have/want sex.
I think Steve85 has mentioned this before, what came first, the chicken or the egg? Did she not want sex because she didn't feel loved? Did he not make her feel loved because they didn't have sex. Like Steve, I know I withdrew emotionally and was sometimes moody because of the lack of intimacy. Would I have been this way if the sex didn't dry up? I'll never know...In the end, it doesn't matter now.
I was never allowed to talk about our SSM, when I did once to a friend and my W found out, she flew into a fit of rage and threatened divorce, saying her privacy had been breached. I told a friend recently, and he said, I wish you had told me, I would have implored you to do something about it and if nothing changed then to leave. I know now that I will never let things like this go again. I thought I was being a good guy by not pressuring and being understanding, but that's classic MNG behaviour.
Me: 41 W:42 T: 14 M: 11 S: 6
"What happened happened, and couldn't have happened any other way...because it didn't"
