As LH19 hints at, the stronger you DB out-of-the-gate, the more she'll feel your absence. She's on dating sites and potentially spending time with OM. How quickly do you need to reassure, "I'm still here!"
How would you feel about forgetting to reply--you're so busy and no questions?
How would you feel about waiting until tomorrow morning to reply?
I see what you're saying. I guess my intent in responding wasn't to say "I'm still here" as much as "Yup - doing good!" because i know she's thinking something's up at this point. This is the longest we've gone without talking in 15 years. So there's obviously already a huge elephant in the room.
Ok Salty Dog. Truth be told you are responding to ease your anxiety. Best to start going cold turkey right now.
