I don't see a need to completely go dark at this point. There wasn't an ultimatum or big blowout. The last we saw each other it was totally fine and I've already gone a very long time not reaching out which is out of the ordinary. If I flat out ignore her without any context it'll likely do more harm than good in the short term and unfortunately I have Xmas to think about. I don't want to ruin Xmas for my kids so my plan is to play along as much as possible while also DBing through the New Year.
