when she asks "I haven't heard from you, is everything all right?"
Wait several hours (or more). the longer you wait the better.
"yes" "Yes, been busy" "never better" "Been busy. Yes I am fine"
I agree with the others, wait to respond and come here for direction to real messages if needed.
Thank you. As I've dragged myself out of the funk I was in yesterday I see these are by far the best types of answers. Of course she hasn't said a word, so who knows if I'll get to use them! lol
