Quote: Maybe if I take my shirt off in front of my H, he knows that I want sex and he isn't passive aggressively waiting for me to demand it, maybe he's just uncomfortable because he knows the appropriate response is arousal but he's just not feeling it. This could be true of HPs husband with the sofa sich or any number of the situations involving the LD wives.
Good thoughts. My ex told me once that he just didn't "get the big deal about sex." He said it wasn't something he thought about very often and I suppose someone in that frame of mind would need a little more input to get their motor humming.
Funny, my ex thought his lack of interest in sex made him superior to other men. Either that or he took on a superior attitude to cover the inferior complex he got from knowing his sex drive lagged behind that of the "normal male." He used to say that most guys just wanted to get in a girls pants and that what he offered meant more. I guess it would mean a lot if all you were after was a buddy. Cathy
