Ooh, I like this theory Mojo.

I know that H feels this way a lot of the time. He SHOULD want sex, so what is the matter with him that he'd rather not?

For him, the erection has nothing to do with it. He is more like the LDW's in this respect. He can have a humongous hardon but his mind can override it every time. I find this to be even more frustrating than the 'nothing' response. To know that his body has responded to me, but his mind still doesn't want me..