It has been now 3 years and a half since ExW's BD. Our D was final a year and a half ago.
I met an amazing woman summer 2019 and we got married this summer.
My ExW remarried too. I think it's the same guy she had an affair with, but I am not 100% sure and don't really care. I had tried to be in good terms with her for about 2 years after BD, but at some point I got tired and decided to avoid any contact with her. For the past year and a half, we only text if there is something important to share about the kids.
Congratulations! Wow both of you remarried a year and a half after D. They may be a record.
Originally Posted by kiro
I don't know how I will feel about my ExW 5 years from now, but for now I decided to keep her out of my life. I don't know whether I forgave her or not. I think it depends on the days. But more and more she becomes part of the past and I don't really think about her or about what happened.
That's where I am at right now. Plain and simple I can't have people in my life who don't care about my feelings. I only want people in my life who appreciate what I have to offer. Will this change someday? Maybe maybe not.
Kiro I always enjoyed your perspective on things and I wish you the best of luck.
