I love the part about how great your life will be. Try not to spend any head space worrying about what will happen to her. Odds are things won't work out for her, but maybe they will. Thinking about how she ruined her life will only cause you pain. What if life ends up being awesome for her? Will that send you spinning? I'm two years post-divorce, and it appears my XW has zero regrets.
It isn't that I'm thinking she's going to be miserable down the road, I wouldn't wish that on her at all, and in the best case scenario we're together down the road. I just know right now - she's a mess. She's told me so and I'm seeing it first hand. So I'm only looking at the now, and how I shouldn't be sitting here thinking she's got it so great and moping around. I wouldn't trade places with her.
