I agree with Harvey, don't start considering her outcomes. There is every chance she will come out of this just fine. Or maybe she won't but you'll never know it. Either way, if you're hoping for karma or rock bottom or hard times for her as your salvation, you might be very disappointed. And if you truly love this person, wouldn't you want the best outcome for her anyway?
When my STBXW moved out in a few months ago, my Mum was there, and said her and her BF were like two excited teenagers on a big adventure. I've had no indication since that she's regretting her decision, in fact from what I understand she is loving life with the OM, but only she truly knows, so the only solution is to move on and focus on ourselves.
Me: 41 W:42 T: 14 M: 11 S: 6
"What happened happened, and couldn't have happened any other way...because it didn't"
