Hi SaltyDog, if you're willing to wait a couple of hours before replying to texts, you can wait until she asks a question before figuring out a reply. This gets you out of the realm of fantasy and into the realm of reality. The brainpower we spend worrying about WhatIf is better spent planning and executing GAL.
Makes sense and I'm good with waiting, I'm just wondering what that kind of response should entail. Do you disclose you aren't OK in any way or keep up the front that everything's groovy?