If she admits to an affair, then what? Are you ready to pursue D? And if she doesn't admit to one, will you believe her? You see, it's a no-win situation. And merely bringing it up is applying pressure to her, which is anti-DBing. What she wants right now is zero pressure. Pull back. Give her time and space.
Excellent point and way to look at it. Thank you.
Originally Posted by AnotherStander
That sounds good, I'm assuming you're doing this on a week that she has the kids. And if so, then go for it. That time is your own and you don't owe her any explanations.
Exactly. I think I'll just go with "I'll be out of town" and leave it at that. What's the consensus on if she asks for more details? It's not like I'm doing anything I want to hide but at the same time I don't feel like being forthcoming at all right now.
