Quote: Bottom line, all any of us can do is grow, remain true to ourselves and hope they will follow our lead. If they don't then we at least don't end up damaged by their actions
This is so true. I think the thing we keep forgetting on this board is that our LD spouses aren't exactly happy with the current situation either. The worst case scenario isn't that we'll give up and decide to move on or even that our attempts at differentiation will cause our spouses to leave. The worst case scenario is if we do nothing and our spouses leave anyways.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
