Originally Posted by Ready2Change
What is currently working for me and my lady is we put the other persons needs before our own.
Originally Posted by Steve85
This has to be a two way street though. That's the only way it will work.


It is also carefully negotiated. My lady does the dishes. I brush the snow off the cars. I let her know I was fine doing both of these things together as a team if that is what she wanted. She decided it was better that we each tackle these task separately. The dogs have an accident in the house. She picks up the mess, I steam clean the carpet.


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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