I'm considering having a conversation with my W regarding the kids and OM2 staying overnight when they're there and having breakfast together....thoughts?
Sounds like control.
We all understand where you are coming from. IMHO Best option is to not bring it up. You can't control it.
If you do bring it up, She and OM will laugh together about how silly you are behaving.
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