Hi SaltyDog, my experience reading here is the wayward spouse lies about 85% of the time. They also (facepalm) often convince the LBS their words are true and bury their activities--temporarily.
That does seem to be the theme reading through the threads. Which answers my question, don't bother asking anything because chances are you won't get the truth back in return.
I just booked a cabin for a few days down by the ocean. Need a place other than the studio to get away. Not going to give her any details other than I'll be out of town those days. I don't want to play games but I also don't feel like she deserves to know what I'm doing at this point.
