I would like to add to my post above that she gave those 5 reasons after I pressed her. She said something like "I have a million reasons to leave." I said: "Okay. Name 5." After a few moments, she came up with the five that I listed. (Took her some serious thought too.)
Nick, I did have a tough journey, but you know what? I'm ok. (Not that I didn't have my dark moments. God, I had some REALLY dark moments and lots of them.)
I'm glad I've inspired you. I would post more often, but honestly, sometimes I just don't have much to say or add. I was 16 when I saw my ex for the first time and was still legally married to her until I was almost 44. That's a long time man. Honestly, even though it has been 10 years since bomb drop, it still hurts sometimes to read the pain that others are going through. Seems to bring it all back you know? I guess that's why I don't post much. However, I do come here from time to time and will chime in when I have something to add to someone's thread. As for my sitch, it's pretty much been written. There's never much to add where XW is concerned. She wants to be friends and I don't. Case closed.
As for PJ, he is no longer with us. He was hit by a car a while back. However, I rescued two little girl kitty cats in his honor and kept the P and the J. I named one Piper and the other Jazz. They've added a lot of fun to my life. They have become the heart and soul of my little apartment and I love them dearly.
It gets better man.
Peace out and take care.
Tad
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Currently: M 57 XW 58 Sons 39,34,32,30
The Sitch: Married 26 years EA w/ OM 9/10 Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary) Sep 12/10 She wants D 1/11 W files 5/11 D final 10/11 XW marries OM 6/13
However, I rescued two little girl kitty cats in his honor and kept the P and the J. I named one Piper and the other Jazz. They've added a lot of fun to my life. They have become the heart and soul of my little apartment and I love them dearly. 