Reposting my last post: Read this elsewhere about infidelity and it really describes my ex. We lived in a wealthy part of town, but he resented the people there who were more wealthy than us (we were just working doctor wealthy, not trust fund baby wealthy):
“The New York Times had an interesting article on a researcher of happiness. One of the traits of unhappy people is that they compare their lives to others a lot. If you need a reason for why he did this, midlife crisis, or whatever — I think a simpler explanation was he wasn’t a content person. He played compare and contrast and thought he could have more, at your expense. That’s not on you. That’s on him, his shitty character and inability to appreciate“
This post really made me think of my X. I like the part that says, "That's not on you". Sometimes I have flashes of self doubt and I have to stop myself. What he did is on him. And I wonder if he's happy. Sure, he might be at the moment, but being a person that's always looking for better, he may never be. And that's on him too.
Glad to here you leak wasn't too costly. I had a leak happen in D4 room, 2 years ago, that was from our A/C, that needed 1/4 of her ceiling replaced. If I can fix something, I try it myself, but this was beyond my line of work. Luckily my handy neighbor came to the rescue.
~Never Give Up ~ 2019 Mar BD June BD Dec Aow/xgf 2020 Jan he wants D Feb he flys2 ow Mar returns stuck here C19 Lckdwn Apr he leaves for work until Nov Oct D FINAL 2020 Living MY Happiest Life Ever
