May, I'm hoping he will ignore it and not show up (he's not required to appear) but we'll see. The hearing is very much just a formality.

I try not to think about the rest of his life because it does make me feel sad for him and for S2.

Ugh, yes, that guy. That comment hit a nerve due to things that happened in my sitch, and I'm sure I came across a little bit ~triggered~ but I'm glad to hear I wasn't the only one who objected. Did your H give you any outlandish reasons for his affair?

Just wanted to share a bit of S2 cuteness. We were stuck inside all day due to heavy rain and getting on each other's nerves. After I snapped at him yet again while tucking him into bed, I gave him an apologetic cuddle and said "I still love you even when you're naughty." With a big smile, he said "And I still love you even when you're cranky." This kid!


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