From XH:

Hi

What do you plan to do?

Looking at finances. There is not enough $ to maintain the house and be able to spend time with D$

I think selling it would be the best option. That way you can find where you want to live and I can find my place.

Unless you can buy me out somehow.

Need to discuss.

Cant keep going like this.

Do you have any ideas of what you want to do?



I have not replied to this. I have shared with a trusted friend, and my dad. I feel sick thinking about this.

*It's in our agreement, what to do IF we both agree to sell the house. There are no terms otherwise. And that's the way it was done. (I am the one who shafted myself on the agreement)

Of course I want to keep the house. But can I afford it? Is my job stable?(only been there for 2 months) Will the house be too much for me when BIG repairs start happening? With the economy/pandemic still ongoing, will my tenants income be stable?

Do I want whoever helps me out to be putting themselves on the line for me?


I don't know exactly what his idea of buying him out means, I can only guess. I have not replied.

*He's also been asking when he can talk to D4. I say whenever/anytime/now. He wants a specific time, so I asked that he tell us a time and we'll be available. SO hard but not, to coordinate with him. *

So, here we go. I just feel like crying, but that doesn't solve anything. I REALLY need to figure this out, and I don't want to sell, but I also don't want to put anyone out that's trying to help, and I don't even know if I can get help. And that just leaves me to sell. And even that part [censored]. Having to deal with it all by myself. What is his plan with the rest of his stuff? Have a container come and it goes out of state no doubt. Must be nice. And meanwhile, I get stuck getting rid of everything. I don't have any attachment to anything.

Thoughts?


Last edited by CanBird; 12/12/20 10:05 PM.
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