Mine thought that neither I nor the appraiser understood the market and that our home was really worth DOUBLE the court-ordered appraised value and the mortgage lender's appraised value. He wants to live off that imaginary extra money and never have to work again, doesn't understand that a mortgage has to be paid until a house is actually sold or that a lender will not give you an equity loan based on what you think a house is worth. He tells my daughter every other weekend that I am stealing this money from him, based on this imaginary value of our house. He also believes he will receive this money instantly as soon as he forces us to move out so it can be sold.

This is as stupid as the grocery store idea but appears in court to be somehow more worth listening to because it has to do with home values? I dunno, the whole thing is a mystery.


I believe I will see the bounty of the Lord in the land of the living.
Wait for the Lord with courage.
Be stouthearted, and wait for the Lord.