geez tad, she didn't know how to get in the dang car and get herself to the *right* grocery store? or know how to open her mouth to ask you to drive her there? these people are unreal. i've been reminded lately of my ex's expectation that i would pay half of his hawaiian vacation (on our 21st anniversary) that he took with his AP ... the reasoning: I pay your living expenses (three months after BD, he's paying the mortgage on our family home ... still shaking my head over that one). Someday I will know I am over this because the word Hawaii or someone mentioning a trip there won't make me twitch.


M 20+ T25+
S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

"Someone I loved once gave me
A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
~ Mary Oliver