Mojo, I have to agree with what you said. Maybe we should watch a little porn some night. I think she has it in her mind that deep throating is the goal and that I should be completely in her mouth like a popsicle. I led her to the idea of using her mouth and tongue on other parts (than simply being inside her mouth) and in combination with her hands, I got pretty aroused. She was starting to look like a pro too!!! What was really weird was that there was a moment where she really seemed to be enjoying herself. I think she's starting to allow herself to "like" these kinds of activities.

I will probably buy the 2 books as suggested. I can't imagine it being a big deal as long as I've stressed the EC elements first, like we have in out monday night meetings.

BTW, I hope everyone got my blatant pun about her "sucking". If not, then I need to draw attention to the fact that my comment was on technique and not a criticism of her if that makes sense...get it?...bj...suck...hmmm. It was a freaking joke! But I just needed to clarify this so people wouldn't think I'm a total a-hole.

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