Originally Posted by BL42
Definitely a different mindset than me, but maybe that's the point - could probably use a bit more alpha/decisiveness.
Yes. Our belief systems have gotten us exactly where we are. Challenging these belief is part of the growth. As with all the information out there, one has to really evaluate all the advise/info they come across. I have to dig through a lot of mud to find the nuggets of wisdom out there. He may be wise in several areas and clueless in other areas.

The PUA is a perfect example. They act Alpha, but are not. But if you see the traits they are displaying you can better understand what woman are attracted to and start changing your behavior to be more attractive.


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