R2C - I'll keep checking those out. They are interesting.
I've watched a number of the "Entrepreneurs in Cars" Youtube videos based on RC's recommendation on this thread. He certainly has strong opinions. Definitely a different mindset than me, but maybe that's the point - could probably use a bit more alpha/decisiveness. Seems a bit jaded about the divorce process but spot on regarding working out and finances.
Originally Posted by ScottB
He said if you get out there on the dating scene it is crazy.
What do you mean by "the dating scene is crazy"? Can you expand on that? In a good or bad way?
Originally Posted by ScottB
He also found out his wife was having an EA about 1.5 after they separated. This stuff is rampant and crazy. I have to believe my Ex is doing the same thing.
I was immediately suspicious of an affair in my sitch after the bomb and confirmed an EA within a day or two - just had that feeling there was more going on - why break up a marriage with two young kids just returning from Disney if not for something else going on? Maybe I'm looking through the bias lens of my sitch right now but I think most people wouldn't leave a "not so bad" (no abuse...etc.) situation if someone they perceive is better isn't lined up, and it seems most of the sitches on this board backs up that theory.
Originally Posted by ScottB
I had a good night out last night with a friend.
Originally Posted by ScottB
Anyhow, tonight I'm going to another friends house for dinner. Should be fun. Tomorrow I am working out with a friend then I have to put a ping pong table together before a bunch of guys come over in the afternoon to hang out and watch football.
Two dinners, working out, and watching football with the guys...sounds like great GAL weekend to me! Way to keep yourself busy and entertained.
Me:39 Ex-W:37 M:7 T: 9 S:6 D:3 BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20 OM1 affair ends: May '20 W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20 W files for D: Jul20 OM2 confirmed: 9/2020 Divorced: May '21