Boy, thinking about this in the eyes of PM is tough because I keep wanting to hold onto myself in other ways.

The other night, my W was receptive to my "leading" her to a new oral technique which I enjoyed (first time I've enjoyed receiving oral). That makes me think that she is open to the idea of learning. I wonder if it would be inappropriate to get this book and somehow give it to my W. I wonder if it's too soon? But considering that we are both beginners in our "new life", this might be the ideal time. I would love it if my W got me a book on sexual techniques to use on her.

I guess I could say "I want to not just have a sex life with LM a few times a week, but I want to have 'great sex' too. I bought this book because I would like for you to learn and improve some techniques. Let me know if there's anything you would like me to learn."

Doesn't sound unreasonable does it?

Anywhere is walking distance if you have the time -Steven Wright