I am just very frustrated because this is really hard, nothing I do seems to be in the right direction when it comes to interactions and I am tired of her disrespect.
This is your problem you still think you can do something to change the outcome. You are a highly motivated person and I think you are use to working hard and solving problems. This can't be solved by anything but time and space. I think she is mean and disrespectful to you because anytime she is semi decent to you she gets an "I love you" or "do you want to go to lunch"? So she realizes you are not safe to be around so she attacks you to get you to back off.
I'm sorry your are struggling Pack and I am not sure how we can help you.
