I just noticed her on the phone because she was sitting close and kept looking at it, it brought me all these terrible memories about the thoughts I had at home in Munich about the phone being a higher priority to her than me or our M.
I can so relate to this as probably most of us here can. I remember back in the spring of 2019 how my anxiety would cripple me whenever I saw my W on her phone, screen turned away from me. She had never been like that and then suddenly and over night, on her phone constantly. Thinking back on that now, I am so grateful to have detached to a point where I am no longer hurting because that was the worst period of my life.
I hope you can get there soon.
Pack, IF one day your W reaches out and says anything like that. Whatever you do, come here first. Say something to buy time and come here and ask for advice before you answer her.
Me: 38 Stbxw: 35 No kids Mini bd: February 6, 2019 ONS confirmed Sept 7, 2019 Told her to move out: September 8, 2019 W moved out: September 28, 2019 Divorce filed by me: September 23, 2019
