I didn't get a chance to practice, so I just did it one- handed relying on memory and that was good enough . The first time I did it, I used it as the main event,just using my mouth at the tip near the end to avoid a "mess". I've used it since as foreplay. I've sort of adopted it as my new standard for "hand work".

As long as we're back on this topic, I should tell you I found a successful "on top" groove also. I had to be much more horizontal than usual and rely on my H to help me move my hips with his hands. This worked great and he even came before me which is unusual.


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