They come up with every excuse in the books and when you do everything humanly possible to correct those things that they point out, they come up with something new. We all have pretzeled at some point and as we walk the path, we slowly, but surely learn that it's not about us at all...but about them. They are truly broken people.
Try to remember...you didn't break her, therefore, you can't fix her. She has to hit that brick wall hard and until she does, she'll find excuse after excuse for why she's so unhappy. I pray that she will wake up sooner rather than later, but her journey is going to be a long one. Some recover, others come back to reality with some of the quirks they found while in crisis and others remain lost and roam the earth as lost, unhappy and in some cases bitter people.
Trying to stay the course will be a marathon, not a spring and at some point, only you can make the decision as to whether you want to continue walking the path or to take the next turn on to a different path and see where life takes you.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
