I think working on your #2 goal-- empathy-- might really help you in a lot of ways, and I think stretching your empathy muscles will also have a positive impact on pretty much every other one of your 180s ... And I will freely share with you that I am among those offended by some of the things you've said.
OK, May, I'll take you up on your offer. Why don't you start, and tell me what you are offended by about me.
