Wow - thank you for all the responses! I got 7 minutes before a meeting but will try and respond a bit now.
Originally Posted by LH19
SD,
So you are in a tough spot right now. Seems like your W is going through something but hasn’t completely written you off. So do you sit and wait to see if she finds better or do you take away that option?
Yup. And how do I protect myself in the meantime while I figure out which to choose?
Originally Posted by LH19
I will warn you that based on what you wrote sounds like your w went is going through something that may take awhile to get through.
I think you're right, and know I won't make it if I keep feeling like I do now on a day to day basis. It's exhausting. I guess the trick is figuring out how to not let it get to you while at the same time not building up resentment to the point where I'm the one who is gonna want to walk away.
Originally Posted by LH19
You have some decisions to make for sure. You didn’t mention ages but I’m guessing the good old 40s lol.
