Petty reasons our MLCer walked out

[NickWing]

My thread on Newcomers:

Best Friend for 27 years in MLC

I’ve only been posting about a month but I’ve read some threads where the reasons our MLC spouse gave for giving up on the marriage seemed a little frivolous, but left us reeling. Along with 2 substantive ones (not enough physical attention, I complained too much) I got:

Sloppy bed
Left toilet seat up
Left the kitchen a mess

Now I can’t argue with the first two, but I cleaned the kitchen. In fact, when W was in the anger phase, she accused me of making messes she actually made herself. I don’t know if she forgot, or what.

I think on DnJ’s thread he got that he walks too slow, or something like that.

Any other small reasons given to write off what we all assumed were decent marriages?