SD,

So you are in a tough spot right now. Seems like your W is going through something but hasn’t completely written you off. So do you sit and wait to see if she finds better or do you take away that option?

I will warn you that based on what you wrote sounds like your w went is going through something that may take awhile to get through.

Great job on working on yourself. Eventually you will be so far ahead you will not have any desire to look back.

You have some decisions to make for sure. You didn’t mention ages but I’m guessing the good old 40s lol.

Welcome aboard Saltydog I recommend you fasten your seatbelt because you are in for a rough ride.