Hmm
Got an envelope from the courts in the mail today. Addressed to W.
It is probably them asking her to confirm and I happen to know she doesn’t have a lot of time to do this.
If she doesn’t intervene within a few days we will be divorced.
W won’t be back home till Monday so I am wondering if I should write to her or just put it in her pile of mail.
I know she’ll not look at it for a few weeks if I put it in her pile.

I filed the final papers for legal D without her knowing.
Leaning towards telling her the envelope came and I believe they sent it because I filed.

Last edited by Mumin; 12/09/20 04:49 PM.
Me: 34
Stbxw: 30
D:5 D:3
Mini bd: May/June 2019
Married: Aug 2019
BD: 6th Dec 2019
OM Confirmed: Feb 2020
March 2020: I filed for D
Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021