Oh KK. You are aware of what you are doing. So why do you keep doing it? Do you like to torture yourself? You put the newer guy of trying to make your STBXH to see you and give you want into someone else who isn’t interested in that either. You know you are doing it. So why don’t you ask yourself WHY you are doing it.
This guy wants to do nothing romantic, just wants sex and only talks about himself. So what exactly aside form the sex is the attraction that makes you want this to be more than what it is? I’m confused.
And I will tell you, even if the guy is interested in a real romantic relationship ( and this guy definitely is not) 6 dates is still too early to define anything. It’s just dating at that point. But your anxious attachment needs it to be more and that will just be too much pressure for someone just trying to date and get to know someone .
