LH, I’m not moping around the house or giving angry stares. I give her all the space in the world. I usually don’t see her in the morning, and try to do something in another part of the house with the kids at night, or go to the gym. If she wants more space she can move out.
It’s business as usual with me and my kids, and W can join in if she wants.
If she feels guilt, that’s on her. I’m not acting okay, I’m good. Definitely not pursuing.