It seems to me we've been talking a lot about communication, empathy, respect, and caring for people, and pointing out times when you haven't 180ed in those areas.
Me: 44 H: 44 Kids: 20, 16, 16, and 10 Together/Married: 22 years H announced he was emotionally detached and considering D: 4/4/16 H announced he is going to try to stay and reconnect: 5/1/16