Thanks Steve, I'm trying.

In terms of social media I removed my W as a follower of my Instagram account and unfollowed hers as well. Initially I thought we should "stay friends" on those SM platforms so we could see pictures of the kids but I'm spending way more than 50/50 with them anyway and don't really care to see her pictures of them regardless. Facebook is a bit trickier because to date we've been using that to video call with the kids on "off" weeks, so I'll need to look into how to handle that, but she hasn't been posting much if at all this year (I'm assuming because of the sitch) so there's no real urgency.


Me:39 Ex-W:37
M:7 T: 9
S:6 D:3
BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20
OM1 affair ends: May '20
W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20
W files for D: Jul20
OM2 confirmed: 9/2020
Divorced: May '21