Originally Posted by Ready2Change
Originally Posted by ScottB
We'll see how these next days without the kids go beginning tomorrow for 5 days.


They will be however you make it. You decide how they will be up front. Make goals. Prioritize. Take action toward those goals. Celebrate every positive step forward.

Agreed. You'll definitely miss them but the more you can line up before (house projects, dinner with friends, activities...etc.) the less you'll sit around and be lonely.


Me:39 Ex-W:37
M:7 T: 9
S:6 D:3
BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20
OM1 affair ends: May '20
W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20
W files for D: Jul20
OM2 confirmed: 9/2020
Divorced: May '21