Ok, I am trying to walk a fine line between being polite and feeding cake. I do all the cooking, so I trying to make it look like I am not cooking for her.
I used to make her breakfast in the morning and stopped doing that, although I did do it the day after I found out about the A. I’d like to go back in time and punch myself in the face.
Last week we got takeout and I had the kids call to see if she wanted any because it would have been rude not to.
Good news is kids are have. NYE party here so I’ll have a house full of teenagers here.
It is a fine line, no question. However, I am not seeing that your W is being openly disrespectful to you. That is really when you need to be forceful and not let her cake eat. I agree with stopping the breakfast cooking. But if you are cooking for the family, she is still part of the family. No need to make things specially for her, but I also wouldn't go out of my way to make sure she didn't have, say, garlic bread.
In general you seem to be doing well though so keep up the good work.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
