At one point there was a random passing comment about who I'm sleeping with or dating, etc. I can't even really remember what his exact words were... at this point I was more than a half way through the wine bottle... and I nonchalantly said I'm not sleeping with anyone else. This was much before I was laughing and stating the booty call comment.
He did give me a bit a hard time because earlier this week I actually asked him what his last name was and he laughed saying I had sex before asking... I said.. truth. He then tried to clarify if this is normal for me at which point I stated definitely not... very outside the norm for me.
Things I have to keep in mind are 1) he did NOT initiate contact with me following our last get together. That's not typically what I'm used to. Typically, the guy does the follow up/pursuing. So is this further indication that this is just a booty call??? However, 2) when I did check in with him briefly 2 days later regarding his dog he immediately texted back an answer about the dog... but then nothing else to keep the convo going... he's been divorced for a long time. Is he just clueless or is it me?
AND - at what point do I bring up the "I'd like to be monogamous"... 8 dates??? 3 months??? I've been off the market for over a decade and frankly I'm used to being the one being pursued.
