Originally Posted by KitCat
He made some comment and I even replied "so this is just a booty call situation?". I wasn't angry or accusative... I was really looking for a definition of what "this" is... he said no but I suppose all guys say that in the situation as they don't want to upset the person. So things are just as clear as mud.

Hi KitCat,

I agree, to the question, "Is this JUST a boot call?" most would say no.. as most relationships, even ones primarily based on sex, have something else.. even if that's as simple as enjoying chilling or going out. It's your choice to leave things as clear as mud and not ask what you really want to know."I know this is never easy to talk about, but I'm looking for a partner and I'd like to be monogamous with you and stop seeing other people, if you're down." If you don't like their answer, consider moving on.

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