Maybe you will get lucky and he will moon you . I think that is what he can control so he does. I do believe that is a way of controlling you. Just as you have your ways of controlling him. The way I control my W or try to any way is through my anger. I can be very passive aggressive. I think I need to get by this and start being honest with my W. I think I do a lot of what all us HDers do. We say I need this and what you are doing is unacceptable. So they say we will try harder and then you wait to see if anything changes. After waiting for 3-4 weeks. You start getting frustrated and then you blow your top. It may not even be aboout sex at the moment but if you look deep down it very well could be. This is the most irraitating thing becuase you know that you need to be patient. I think that we all need to stick to our guns and set boundries. Anyway back to subject. If he is MBing and not having sex with you then I see a huge problem. Me being HD. I could MB in the morning and at lunch be ready to ML to my W.
I think the LD is very different than this. They want time to recopirate<sp>. My W says a lot the same as the others. That it is great. But she doesn't want to do it again the next day. That I don't get in anyway shape or form. Anyway I think im just rambleing now. so I will stop.

Lee