Sorry Nick. I know this conversation was not what you wanted, but for some reason your W seemed to determine to have it. Very strange, but it makes me wonder what her end goal might be? My guess is that she is ready to take things to another level with the OM, and she wants to be able to point back at this conversation if any of your daughters get upset about it and say "I told you that me and your father were having problems!"

That is the only reason I can see why she pushed so hard for this conversation. It makes no sense for any other reason. I would double-down on GAL. 180s and detachment. DB like there is no tomorrow. Leave her alone to figure out her own crap, and you go live a great life. Be the best father for these girls that you can be. Focus off of W, onto you and your kids.

Good luck man, I pray things improve for you.

Last edited by Steve85; 12/07/20 05:24 PM.

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018