Quote: I think the with holding is a way of being in control of something
Yes,that is quite probably true, but if my H is withholding sex from me but still MBing with pornography, it seems to me the only thing he can possibly be trying to control is me. This is what I would find unacceptable.
Quote: Maybe you should just try getting him drunk a lot. .
My H gets crazy when he's drunk but it makes him want to dance or, if extremely wasted, "moon" people, it doesn't seem to increase his sex drive.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
