Mojo, "I think maybe it's more a case of the porn informing his taste rather than his drive."
This is EXACTLY what I was trying to say; thanks for the right words. I couldn't think of how to say it and didn't have the time to ponder on it.
I agree that porn does not affect men's sex drives but I think it does affect what turns them on. I can see how you would feel that it is hard to be seductive in that fashion with teenagers around.
What else does he respond to? Descriptive emails? Whispering in his ear what you will do to him later? I know that the overt stuff turns him on, but I am trying to brainstorm here and think of ways to do that in an unobtrusive way so that the kiddies are not aware. Is he turned on by things like "I don't have any panties on under my dress" and that sort of thing? Mine isn't so all of that spicing it up crap is a nonissue for us. I mean, he would be incredibly turned on by the no undies IF he already felt horny and still yet, there would be no overt show of horniness--he just may or may not jump me later on. Weird man!
