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To be truthful, you really upset me with your initial Mrs. Roper comment. On at least one occasion in the past, I've actually said to my H " This situation is driving me crazy, you are making me feel sexually repulsive like Mrs. Roper".
I do not like having to be overly concerned with looking or acting sexy. I am a geeky, bookworm who likes to garden and I would wear t-shirts and overalls everyday if I could. I do not like having to be sexually aggressive, I much prefer for the guy to make the first move.I'm HD enough that I can be "the top" if I must, but I am unhappy with a situation where I always have to be. If I could count on my H to initiate sex with any sort of reasonable frequency, I would probably only initiate once in a while.
If the only way I'm going to get laid in this life is to pretend to be LD and act bitchy, then I guess I will just stick to gardening and hope for better things in the next.
Actually though you've been quite helpful, just typing this post has helped me clarify things for myself.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
