LH - I guess I don't know that there is no chance at reconciliation; I am making an assumption based on her actions and the things she is saying.
What that she is divorcing?
Originally Posted by ScottB
More continues to go down. Her and my son had four confrontations yesterday that she told me about and I looked at his phone and he texted a friend of his "I don't give a carp for my mom right now." So they are not doing good.
Yep. Get use to that. I deal with it all the time. She will need someone to take her misery out on and you won't be there so the kids get it.
Originally Posted by ScottB
I offered up to her, when she dropped them off today, a device we had to help manage screen time and she scoffed at me saying "I don't want that." I had bought it to help manage her relationship with my son in the past because she was struggling to enforce limits on his screen time, which is exactly what the issue was yesterday. Oh well, I guess I really need to stay out of it (of course she had emailed me asking what we should do).
I would suggest that you let her deal with her issues herself. If you want to just validate that is fine too. Whatever you do please do not tell her the kids are acting out because of the D. That will just get her pissed at you.
Originally Posted by ScottB
On another note I put tuperware on the top shelf of the dishwasher today. That felt really good. My wife had a thing that tuperware couldn't go in the dishwasher. I also bought my vanilla last night at the store - that stuff is the cost of gold!
It's awesome doing whatever the fuch you want in your own house.
Originally Posted by ScottB
This morning as I got ready for the kids drop off I was having a ball. Had the radio up all the way and was dancing around. I love getting the kids.
Yep! It becomes your favorite day of the week and gives you something to look forward to.
Scotty B I see a slight change in you. I think you are slowly seeing this is not a death sentence for you.
