I feel like I need to defend Christianity. In case any readers are wondering, there are entire congregations of Christians who do not believe the man is the head of the woman. You don't have to subscribe to strict gender roles in order to be Christian.

This public service announcement is now over. Carry on.

Me: 44
H: 44
Kids: 20, 16, 16, and 10
Together/Married: 22 years
H announced he was emotionally detached and considering D: 4/4/16
H announced he is going to try to stay and reconnect: 5/1/16