I did not change my mind but I am here to try to help.
What I’m saying is if you go back and read through your threads and you still are confused as to why your W left I am not sure what I can tell you. This is also your side of the story which I’m sure is only half the truth.
A woman wants someone to listen to them and be able to have a voice in the relationship so she can feel safe and comfortable. She doesn’t want to feel dismissed and unappreciated.
I get it. She’s was fulfilling your needs so you didn’t fulfill hers. Well guess what you’re here and she’s not so who loses?
I’m not trying to call you out Tom these are things that I’m learning too. So we can sit here and play the blame game or we can learn to be better.
I’m not gonna blow sunshine up your a$$ Tom. I know why you are here. I also know you’re in a lot of pain and I do have compassion for that and wish that on no one.
